garments~

bismillah..

(2:187) they (your wives) are garments for you and you are garments for them

garments are not held together by a few big knots but by thousand little stitches of thread..

it is not the large amount in the hantaran but it is the accumulation of small words and little acts each day that make up this garment..

the point of a garment is to provide warmth, protection and decency..
any scar or imperfection of any form on the body is kept hidden beneath the garment.

marriage will reveal one's true colours-like that imperfection on the body- but may the faith in Him keep our hearts strong to continue stitching and embroidering beautiful words and acts despite circumstances.

there's a part of my friend's nikah khutbah that I found really interesting. the imam told us that the arabic word used to describe spouse is 'zauj' and it lexically implies one of the pair as in - like say gloves - there is always a left and a right. different: the left is not the same as the right, but when paired - it will be more useful. or to accentuate the importance, like the wings of a bird. it may take some time for the left and right wings to synchronize-after all the baby bird can not fly upon birth- but once they are able to, it'd make the bird soar high up in the sky=)

marriage will reveal our differences.
our taste in clothes or food, or even the way we use our time - everything that our spouses do will affect us.

the garment he/she may be stitching for us may not be to our preference, hence, may Allah give the ability to be true to each other such such to taylor garments according to both sides' liking..


two heads are better than one - an emphasis of the value of asking for opinions and the power of discussion in generating creative solutions with a partner who may support and complement our skills and understanding.

(2:187) they are garments for you and you are garments for them =)

to my dearest friends who will get married especially to my most dearest K.T_._._(raya ke3),and A_._._._(raya ke 3 juga~)

BarakAllahu laka, wa baraka 'alayk, wa-jama'a baynakuma fi-khair
May Allaah bless for you (your spouse) and bless you, and may He unite both of you in goodness.


owhh, and to those who have/will get engaged! (especially org yg tunang on the raye kedua nnti and raya ke 5 may Allah make ease all that is best for you deen!
=)

and to KAK TIERA n SHAHRIL AZAHAR(kalian ngertikn?=),ngee..tahniah.alhamdulillah atas segalanya~_~..im happyyy for both of youuu!! and still am=) )~

Abu Hurairah (radhiallâhu anhu) narrated that the Prophet (sallallâhu ‘alayhi wasallam) said: “Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one whose character is excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their wives well.” (Tirmidhi 278, 628, 3264 and Abu Dawud)

=)

pilihan

selagi belum tamat perjanjian kite dimuka bumi ini

selagi tulah kite berdepan dgn pilihan

pilihan utk menjadi baik atau sebaliknya
pilihan utk buat atau tak ape yg Allah suruh,
pilihan utk tinggalkan atau tak ape yg Allah larang..

ya..

kita punyai hak utk memilih..
jalan yg kite nak
buatlah ape yg kite nak

tp..
dsana nnti kite akan dipertanggunjawabkan dihadapan Allah
bile dah berada di sana nnti no turning back
nangis air mata darah sekalipun,x mungkin akan kembali smula ke dunia
whai hamba Allah,
adakah awk ingin hidup disana dibelenggu penyelesaian yg tdk berkesudahan?

tanak...
nauzubillah..=(..
ya Allah selamatkn abd ini..

hamba yg msih berlari-lari,kadang kala tercungap-cungap,kadang kala tersadung kaki dan jatuh..saat hamba ini jatuh,tuntun hamba ini ya Allah,agar mmpu berlari sehingga ke garisan penamat..dan mencapai redhaMu..

mode=muhasabah diri.+.stdy tuk regional pain exam besok

nenekku=)

bismillah..

alhamdulillah.tgh2 jalan time panas terik td,terlintas sesuatu di benak kecil ini
iaitu tentang pengorbanan..

pengorbanan srg insan yg bergelar nenek.* i miss my nenek soo much*
srg nenek tentunya penat slps susah payah membesarkan 7 org anaknya,
kemudian ditambah lagi dgn 4 org cucunya,
masa yg sepatutnya nenek habiskan utk berehat
nenek korbankan demi membesarkan cucu-cucunya

besar pengorbanan ini..
bukan senang utk berdiri diats kaki sendri
menjadi ayah dan juga ibu dlm masa yg sama
menjadi ketua keluarga,tulang belakang keluarga,
utk terus kuat taktala umur makin menganjak usia

namun pernah nenek memasamkn muka?
pernah nenek mengungkit?
pernah nenek ckp penat?

tak..tak penah..

sebaliknya hanya senyuman yg menghiasi bibir nipis itu
ucapan alhamdulillah sering bermain dibibir
la tahkof wala tahzan menjadi zikirnya
deraian air mata hanya di hadapan Tuhan,smsa dipertiga mlm..
sedikit sgt rehatnya..

cucu yg nenek besarkn ini pula yg menjadi malu
malu dgn diri sndiri
krn trlalu fragile,trlalu mnjakn diri
trlalu ikut perasaan,trlalu..dan terlalu byak kekurangan

nk jadi mcm nenek..nk miliki hati setabah dan sekuat hati nenek..
~nenek sumber inspirasi~=)

~TIADA MASA UTK TDK BERSEMANGAT~

what u r fighting for?

bismillah..

skematik letronik,
Want to end the cycle of struggle?

know that this is a temporary state. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been where you are. All that you need to know is that nothing is permanent. All things change, even if it seems that they don’t. It’s simply a law of nature — nothing stays the same forever. The universe is constantly moving, evolving, and changing, and so are you. So instead of seeing this as a neverending path into darkness, know that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, and every day, it’s getting closer

skematikletronik,
remind yourself what you’re fighting for...
“Jadikanlah sabar dan solat sebagai penolongmu. Dan sesungguhnya yang demikian itu sungguh berat kecuali bagi orang-orang yang khusyu’, (iaitu) orang-orang yang meyakini bahwa mereka akan menemui Tuhannya dan bahwa mereka akan kembali kepada-Nya”. (Al-Baqarah: 45-46)

“Kerana itu, ingatlah kamu kepada-Ku, nescaya Aku ingat (pula) kepadamu dan bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan janganlah kamu mengingkari (nikmat)Ku. Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jadikanlah sabar dan solat sebagai penolongmu. Sesungguhnya Allah SWT sentiasa bersama dengan orang-orang yang sabar“. (Al-Baqarah: 152-153)

“Sesungguhnya Rasulullah SAW apabila menghadapi suatu persoalan, baginda segera mengerjakan solat“.


certainly this life is not just to grow up, have a family, work merely to keep ourselves ‘living’ and later on die.

what do we have to present to Allah on Judgement Day?

people are dying to help the ummah and to bring back justice to Islam...

.......

bismillah..
Never regret anything that has happened in your life, it cannot be changed, undone or forgotten so take it as a lesson learned and move...

smlm,bncang topik(sy mestilah muslim dr sudut ibadah)dr buku mazayakni.

Berkata 'ulama':
"Sembahyang itu adalah urusan akhirat, maka kamu masuk menunaikannya
(bererti) kamu telah keluar dari dunia."

...Tidak ada satu perbuatan mendekatkan diri (taqarrab) kepada Aku
oleh hambaKu yang lebih Aku cintai selain daripada kewajipan-kewajipan yang
Aku fardukan ke atasnya. Hamba Ku akan terus beramal menghampiri diri
kepadaKu dengan melakukan amalan-amalan sunat sehingga Aku mencintainya.
Apabila Aku sudah mencintainya maka Aku (menjadikan) pendengarannya yang
dengannya dia mendengar, penglihatannya yang dengannya dia melihat,
tangannya yang dengannya dia memukul dan kakinya yang dengannya dia
berjalan. Jika dia memohon sesuatu dari Aku nescaya Aku berikannya. Dan jika
dia memohon perlindungan Aku (dari sesuatu) nescaya Aku akan
melindunginya...Hadis oleh Al-Bukhari)

Mereka sentiasa mengambil sedikit sahaja: Masa dari waktu malam, untuk
mereka tidur. 18- Dan pada waktu akhir malam (sebelum fajar) pula, mereka
selalu beristighfar kepada Allah (memohon ampun). (Surah Al-Zariat 51: Ayat
17-18)

"Mintalah doa kepadaku, nescaya aku akan memperkenankan permintaanmu"..

*silent mode*

stdy group

bismillah..
Staying motivated is a struggle — our drive is constantly assaulted by negative thoughts and anxiety about the future. Everyone faces doubt and depression. What separates the highly successful is the ability to keep moving forward.

stdy group~
thurs(7 -8.30 pg)=injury to UL(ortho)
saturday(6.30 ptg-10.30mlm)=intectious disease-atun(enterov,thyphoid fever),
-nd(scarlet,measles,g.measles,roseola)
-pah(erythma inf,varicella,HSV,mumps)
sunday(6.30-10.30mlm-OnG=normal labour(2 jm pertm=k.iman)
=contraception(hida)

monday(2.30 ptg-5.30 ptg)=ong(3rd stage compl=atun
antep.hg=yah)
tuesday(7-10.30)=paed(neonatalogy)-jaundice(nd),
-resp.problm in infant(pah)

The first motivation killer is a lack of confidence(focusing entirely on what I want and neglecting what already have.)
The second motivation killer is a lack of focus. How often do you focus on what you don’t want, rather than on a concrete goal?
A lack of direction kills motivation because without an obvious next action we succumb to procrastination.

It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter periods of low energy, bad luck, and even the occasional failure. If you don’t discipline your mind, these minor speed bumps can turn into mental monsters.

.....

bismillah..


'pahala org bermujahadah takkan sama dgn yg tak bermujahadah..'


'dlm hidup,ade 2 pilihan,satu yg SUKA buat,satu lagi yg PERLU buat..memilih yg PERLU buat seperti the road not taken...


hanya Allah yg tahu hati kita..hanya Allah yg layak menilai hati kita..mungkin pada pandangan mnsia kite ni mcm ni,mcm tu.. tp kita nakkan penilaian drp Allah kn sbnrnya?
kite persmbahkn hati kita pd Allah..kita nak tunjukkan yg terbaik pd Allah.=)

smoga dlm apa pun urusan seharian,Allah melindungi hati insan ini drp sifat2 mazmumah,smoga Allah tanamkan dlm hati insan ini,rasa kehambaan,rasa cinta kpd Allah melebihi cinta kpd selainNya,smoga hmba ini sntiasa ikhlas..sbb hamba ini takut..

krn..keikhlasan itu ibarat semut hitam yg berada diatas batu yg hitam,pada mlm yg gelap gelita..dan hanya Allah yg mengetahuinya..

skematikletronik,
Don’t compare yourself to other people. It won’t help. You’ll only find what you expect to find. If you think you’re weak, everyone else will seem stronger. If you think you’re strong, everyone else will seem weaker. There’s no point in doing this. Simply look at where you are now, and aim to get better as you go forward...



smoga Allah melindungi kami semua wlu dimana kami berada..ameen ya Rabb..=)
dan smoga Allah melindungi saudara-saudara kami di palestin sna terutamanya dan saudara seislam kami diseluruh dunia..ameen..

mode=skmtik letronik kne bace buku..